15 Labor Signs That You Need to Look Out For

The final stretch of pregnancy can feel like a mix of excitement and anxiety. You’ve spent months preparing for your little one’s arrival, and now you’re eagerly awaiting the moment when you’ll finally get to meet your baby. But how do you know when labor is just around the corner? Understanding the signs and symptoms of labor can help you feel more prepared and confident as you approach your due date. In this article, we’ll explore 15 signs that indicate labor is near, so you can recognize the signals your body is giving you and know when it’s time to head to the hospital.

As a soon-to-be mom, you might have heard all kinds of stories from friends, family, and even strangers about how labor begins. Some might have told you about the dramatic movie-style rush to the hospital, while others shared their more subtle experiences. The truth is, labor can start in many different ways, and it’s unique to each woman. That’s why it’s essential to be aware of various signs and symptoms, so you’re not caught off guard when the time comes. Remember, knowledge is power, and being informed can help you stay calm and focused as you embark on this incredible journey.

Whether you’re a first-time mom or an experienced parent, you’ll find valuable insights and reassurance in these pages. So, let’s get started on this exciting countdown to meeting your little one!


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1. Nesting Instinct

Ever found yourself scrubbing the floors at 3 AM or organizing the baby’s wardrobe for the fifth time? Welcome to the nesting phase! This burst of energy and desire to clean and organize is nature’s way of preparing your home for the new arrival.

As you approach labor, you might find yourself suddenly bursting with energy and an overwhelming urge to clean, organize, and prepare your home for the baby. You might find yourself scrubbing floors at midnight, rearranging the nursery for the tenth time, or stocking up on baby supplies. It’s almost as if your body knows that the baby is coming soon, and it’s giving you the motivation to make everything perfect.

I remember when I was pregnant with my first child, I woke up one morning with an uncontrollable urge to deep clean the entire house. My husband thought I was crazy as I scrubbed the baseboards and sanitized every surface. Looking back, it was a clear sign that labor was imminent, even though I didn’t realize it at the time.

While it can be a great way to get things done, it’s also a sign that your body is preparing for labor. So, if you suddenly feel like channeling your inner Martha Stewart, it might be your body’s way of telling you that labor is near.

2. Lightening

Lightening, or the baby dropping lower into the pelvis, is a common sign that labor is approaching. You might notice that you can breathe more easily because there’s less pressure on your diaphragm, but you might also feel increased pressure on your bladder and pelvis. This shift usually happens a few weeks before labor, especially in first-time pregnancies, but it can occur closer to delivery in subsequent pregnancies.

When my baby dropped, I felt an immediate difference. It was like a weight had lifted off my chest, and I could finally take deep breaths again. However, the trade-off was that I needed to use the bathroom more frequently and experienced a constant sensation of heaviness in my lower abdomen. You’ll notice that you might waddle a bit more, and the urge to pee might become relentless. One of my friends jokingly called this the “penguin shuffle” phase, and trust me, it’s a pretty accurate description! It was a bittersweet reminder that my baby would soon be here.

3. Braxton Hicks Contractions

Braxton Hicks contractions, also known as practice contractions, can become more frequent and intense as you near labor. These contractions are your body’s way of preparing for the real thing, but they don’t lead to actual labor. They can be uncomfortable and even painful, but they’re typically irregular and don’t increase in intensity.

During my third trimester, Braxton Hicks contractions became a daily occurrence. They often took me by surprise, especially when I was out running errands or trying to relax. I learned to recognize the difference between these practice contractions and the real deal by timing them and noting whether they became more intense. If your contractions are irregular and don’t follow a pattern, it’s likely just Braxton Hicks. But if they start to form a consistent pattern and grow stronger, you might be in the early stages of labor.

4. Increased Vaginal Discharge

I remember being a bit alarmed when I first noticed an increase in discharge, but my midwife reassured me that it was a positive sign. It meant that my body was making progress, even if I couldn’t see it happening. As your body prepares for labor, you might notice an increase in vaginal discharge. This can be a sign that your cervix is starting to dilate and efface (thin out) in preparation for birth. The discharge may be clear, pink, or slightly bloody, and it’s sometimes referred to as the “bloody show.” This is a normal part of the process and indicates that your body is getting ready for labor.

If you notice any significant changes in your discharge, it’s always a good idea to check in with your healthcare provider to make sure everything is on track.

5. Loss of the Mucus Plug

The mucus plug is a thick, jelly-like substance that seals the cervix during pregnancy to protect your baby from infection. As your cervix begins to dilate, the mucus plug may dislodge and pass out of your body. This can happen all at once or in small pieces over several days. Losing your mucus plug is a sign that labor is on the horizon, but it doesn’t necessarily mean it will start immediately.

When I lost my mucus plug, I felt a mix of excitement and nervousness. It was a tangible sign that things were progressing, even though I didn’t go into labor right away. Some women might not even notice when they lose their mucus plug, so don’t worry if it’s not something you experience. Every pregnancy is different, and there are many other signs to watch for.

6. Back Pain

If you start experiencing a dull, persistent backache, especially if it’s new or different from the back pain you’ve had throughout pregnancy, it could be a sign that labor is imminent. Back pain is a common complaint during pregnancy, but it can intensify as you approach labor. This pain, often referred to as “back labor,” occurs because the baby’s head is pressing against the lower back. My back pain came out of nowhere and was unlike the typical pregnancy aches. The discomfort can be persistent and may feel like a constant, dull ache or sharp, intermittent pain.

I vividly remember the intense back pain I experienced in the days leading up to labor. It felt like a never-ending cramp that wouldn’t go away no matter how I positioned myself. Warm baths and gentle massages from my partner helped alleviate some of the discomfort, but it was a clear sign that my body was preparing for the big event. If you’re experiencing severe back pain, it’s worth mentioning to your healthcare provider to ensure everything is progressing normally.

7. Diarrhea

Yep, no one really talks about this glamorous part of impending labor. Your body releases prostaglandins, which help soften your cervix but also can cause diarrhea. This is your body’s way of emptying the bowels to make room for the baby’s passage through the birth canal. I vividly recall the sudden onset of loose stools a few days before labor with my second child and thinking, “Here we go!”

While it might not be the most glamorous symptom, experiencing diarrhea was a sure sign for me that labor was imminent. It felt like my body was doing a final “spring cleaning” before the main event. Staying hydrated and eating light, easy-to-digest foods helped me manage this symptom without feeling too uncomfortable.

8. Cramps and Increased Pelvic Pressure

Cramps and increased pelvic pressure are common signs that your body is gearing up for labor. As your baby moves lower into the pelvis, the baby’s head pressing down can cause a feeling of heaviness or pressure in your pelvic area. You might feel crampy, similar to menstrual cramps, as your cervix starts to soften and dilate. This can make walking, sitting, and even sleeping a bit uncomfortable. I remember feeling like I was carrying a bowling ball between my legs!

I started feeling these cramps a few days before going into labor. They were mild at first but gradually became more noticeable. The pelvic pressure made it challenging to find a comfortable sitting or sleeping position, but I took it as a positive sign that my baby was getting ready to make their grand entrance.

This pressure is your baby’s head engaging in the birth canal, getting ready for delivery. It can be quite uncomfortable, but it’s a positive sign that your body is preparing for labor. Using a pregnancy pillow for support can help alleviate some of the discomfort. If you’re experiencing these symptoms, try to stay as comfortable as possible and remember that it’s all part of the process.

9. Burst of Energy

It might seem counterintuitive, but many women report a sudden burst of energy in the days leading up to labor. This surge, sometimes called the “second wind,” can leave you feeling more motivated and productive than you’ve felt in weeks. It’s believed to be nature’s way of giving you the energy you’ll need for labor and delivery.

I was amazed at how energized I felt just before labor started. After weeks of feeling sluggish and tired, I suddenly had the urge to tackle projects I had been putting off. I used this burst of energy to finalize baby preparations, and it was a welcome change from the fatigue of late pregnancy. If you find yourself suddenly full of energy, enjoy it and use it to your advantage!

10. Cervical Dilation and Effacement

Your healthcare provider will monitor your cervix for signs of dilation (opening) and effacement (thinning) as you approach your due date. These changes are essential for labor to progress and indicate that your body is preparing for delivery. You might not feel these changes happening, but they are a critical part of the labor process. I remember eagerly awaiting my weekly check-ups to hear about any progress.

While some women may start dilating weeks before labor, others might not show much progress until labor is well underway. While it can be disheartening if there’s little to no change, remember that labor can start suddenly, and things can progress quickly. So, don’t be discouraged if your cervix isn’t moving as quickly as you hoped. It’s all part of the unique journey to meeting your baby.

11. Water Breaking

The dramatic breaking of the water, or the rupture of the amniotic sac, is often portrayed in movies as a sudden gush of fluid. However, it can also be a slow trickle. When your water breaks, it means labor is imminent, and it’s time to contact your healthcare provider and head to the hospital.

When my water broke, it wasn’t the movie-style gush I had anticipated. Instead, it was a steady trickle that left me questioning whether it was really happening. After confirming with my doctor, we headed to the hospital, and things progressed quickly from there. If you’re unsure whether your water has broken, it’s always best to get checked out. Better safe than sorry!

12. Stronger, More Regular Contractions

As you get closer to labor, your contractions will become stronger, more regular, and closer together. Unlike Braxton Hicks contractions, true labor contractions follow a consistent pattern and increase in intensity. Timing your contractions can help you determine whether you’re in labor and when it’s time to go to the hospital.

I remember the moment I realized my contractions were the real deal. They started as mild cramps but quickly became more intense and regular. Timing them helped me understand that it was time to call my doctor and prepare for the trip to the hospital. If you’re experiencing strong, regular contractions, it’s a good sign that labor is underway.

13. Nausea and Vomiting

Nausea and vomiting can occur in the early stages of labor due to hormonal changes and the body’s response to the physical stress of labor. This can be due to the body’s natural process of clearing out the digestive system in preparation for delivery. With my first pregnancy, I was surprised by a sudden bout of nausea just days before going into labor. While not every woman experiences this symptom, it can be a sign that labor is imminent.

If you experience this, try to stay hydrated and eat small, bland meals. It’s just another sign that your body is getting ready for the big day. If the nausea is severe, don’t hesitate to contact your healthcare provider for advice.

14. Restlessness and Insomnia

Restlessness and difficulty sleeping are common in the days leading up to labor. You might find yourself unable to get comfortable or experiencing a sense of anticipation that keeps you awake. This restlessness can be frustrating, but it’s also a sign that your body is preparing for labor.

In the final days before giving birth, I couldn’t seem to get a good night’s sleep. My mind was racing with thoughts of the upcoming labor, and my body felt restless. I tried to rest as much as possible during the day and reminded myself that it was all part of the process. If you’re experiencing restlessness, try to relax and rest when you can.

15. Intuition

Sometimes, you just know. Many women report having a strong intuition that labor is about to start. Many moms-to-be experience a gut feeling that labor is imminent. It’s an instinctual sense that something is about to happen. This gut feeling can be surprisingly accurate and is often accompanied by a sense of calm or readiness.

Trusting your instincts and listening to your body can be incredibly empowering. Trusting my intuition helped me feel more prepared and confident when labor did begin. If you feel like labor is near, make sure your hospital bag is packed, and your support system is on standby.


Recognizing the signs and symptoms of labor can help you feel more prepared and confident as you approach your due date. From the nesting instinct to stronger contractions, each sign is your body’s way of signaling that your baby is on the way. While every pregnancy and labor experience is unique, being aware of these common indicators can give you peace of mind and help you know when it’s time to head to the hospital. While some signs are more obvious than others, they all point towards the same exciting conclusion: you’re about to meet your baby!

Remember to stay in close contact with your healthcare provider and trust your instincts. The final days and weeks of pregnancy can be a whirlwind of emotions, but knowing what to expect can help you feel more prepared and less anxious. Surround yourself with supportive people, and don’t hesitate to reach out to your healthcare provider with any concerns. Labor is an incredible journey, and soon, you’ll be holding your precious baby in your arms. Until then, take care of yourself, stay informed, and cherish these last moments of your pregnancy.

What was the tell-tale sign for you that this is it, this is the real deal?


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